Why do we love someone who hurts us?

However, the one being hurt loves the person hurting them. They remain in the relationship because they want to believe the other will change; that their partner wants to and will get better; and most of all, because they feel guilty for even thinking about leaving the relationship.

Can you ever stop loving someone who hurt you?

You may always carry those feelings with you in some form. Love doesn’t always go away just because we want it to. But even if you can’t entirely stop loving someone who doesn’t love you or who’s caused you harm, you can manage those feelings in positive, healthy ways so they don’t continue to cause you pain.

Why do we hurt others to hurt ourselves?

We hurt others in order to hurt ourselves. When we hurt one who is close to us, ultimately we hurt ourselves- because guilt, regret and shame can torment us long after the hurt is done. But why would we do this? This tendency is founded on core beliefs of inadequacy.

Why do I hurt the one I Love the most?

You may hurt the one you love the most simply because they are the ones that are mostly around. Our emotions, thoughts and behaviours are in constant interplay. If we have a negative mood, we are therefore more likely to act in ways that match our emotional state or get triggered by innocuous and harmless stimuli.

Why do emotionally hurt people get offended easily?

Emotionally hurt people get offended easily because as mentioned above they are highly sensitive. This is the reason why they could become defensive and react aggressively in trivial situations. Very often they would feel offended when others joke with them even if it is not in a mean way.

What do you say to someone who has hurt you?

Unless you have hurt the person in some way, know that they are acting from a place of pain and a yearning desire for love. Hurting people often don’t love themselves enough so they look for love and approval from others. We can always offer love to them — either in close proximity or from further away.