Why does my ex talk so bad about me?

Originally Answered: What does it mean when your ex talks bad about you? It means they don’t value you or respect you as a person. They’re probably not in a relationship with you for the right reasons, & they’re just using you as a crutch of their ego.

Is it okay to talk bad about your ex?

Most experts agree: you should not reach out to your ex unless you hope to salvage a treasured friendship. The impulse to reach out to an ex, whether it is because you still have feelings for them, you are seeking comfort and familiarity, or you simply want to know how they are doing, is often a bad idea.

When an ex is vindictive?

Here are some signs that your ex-spouse is being vindictive: Your ex-spouse badgers you with questions about who you are seeing or will even step up if you are seen with someone else and berate you in front of the person. Your ex talks negatively about you toward your children and tries to turn them against you.

What to do when your ex is saying bad things about you?

Urge people to contact you directly if they have a question or concerns. Don’t get emotional. It’s natural to feel angry and upset when people say bad things about us. But if you comer across as volatile or capable of whatever your ex is saying about you, then people may believe what they’ve heard.

How do I deal with my ex-boyfriend who keeps harassing me?

This means do not defend yourself, insult him back, or threaten to take away the said assets or children. Stick with the goal at hand. Repeat the question and wait for your answer. If the behavior continues, walk away, hang up, or do not reply if it’s via text or email.

How do I Stop my Ex from bad mouthing my dad?

While you cannot stop your ex, you can do things to present your side of the story. Acknowledge the bad-mouthing. Name bad-mouthing as a problem but don’t respond with your own bad-mouthing, i.e., “your father’s a nightmare and is out for revenge.”

What to do if your ex is trying to control your kids?

Your ex is trying to control what your kids think, so give them permission to think for themselves. Tell them to talk to you directly if they have concerns about you. Don’t pressure them to believe your side of the story; instead, let them know they have a right to their own feelings and opinions.