Why does my husband spend so much time with his friends?

When your husband chooses to spend more time with his friends, working on his car, or doing some other activity than spending time with you, it might signal that he is unhappy with you for some reason. Or he may not be talking to you about it because he doesn’t want to deal with the argument that will result from it.

Is your husband spending too much time with his friends?

That said, if your husband is spending too much time with friends, you may feel resented or neglected. ( The same is true for husbands as well.) When one person is hurting, it can harm the relationship. Some men may not want to change their relationships with their friends after getting married, or think their marriage will need to shift.

Why won’t my husband make friends?

Coupled with a spouse with no friends to speak of, this can be a glimpse at the real roots of both issues. Jealousy and control are often masks for insecurity, and it may be the very same insecurity that keeps a husband like Joe from making friends, or even feeling confident enough to connect with strangers at all.

Why don’t men want to stay friends after getting married?

( The same is true for husbands as well.) When one person is hurting, it can harm the relationship. Some men may not want to change their relationships with their friends after getting married, or think their marriage will need to shift. Others may not realize that they can still maintain those friendships and prioritize the needs of their spouse.

How do I get my husband to spend more time with Me?

Let him know that you’d like to spend more alone time with him. You may or may not want time exclusively alone. Explain that while you respect his need to spend time with his friends, you want to devote time to your relationship. Make sure to ask your spouse to share his reaction to your feelings. Does he see where you are coming from?