Why is my dad so angry all the time?

Your father might be going through a lot of stress, so it manifests as anger. Sometimes when we are stressed, we take it out on others. It may be related to work, finances, etc. It’s hard to put up with someone who is never in a good mood, especially if they are your parent.

How to deal with a father who is never in good mood?

It’s hard to put up with someone who is never in a good mood, especially if they are your parent. Maybe talking to your father about what’s really bothering him, would help you put things more in perspective. Or, sometimes, you have to be patient with your dad and not let his anger get the best of you.

What should I do if I’m afraid of my own father?

If you are feeling anything less than safe and comfortable you need to contact someone. I know it is hard and scary. But it’s the best thing for you. You could contact a friends parent, a family member that you trust or even your favourite teacher. But you should never feel afraid in your own home, let alone your own father.

How would you describe your father’s personality?

He is a very opinionated and angry person and has no hesitation in showing it, both at home and in public. He thinks he is always right and every one else is wrong, and expects to have everything his way. My family have tried to talk to him about his behaviour, but he gets very defensive and loses his temper.

Feelings of invisibility, not being seen or heard, not feeling valued and fear of loss are some of the other emotions which can drive anger. There are many. Maybe some of these are what your dad is really feeling.

How do I deal with my dad when he yells at me?

One thing you could do is to WAIT until there is a time when your father is not “heated up”, and ask him why he yells at your mother and what is happening to cause this anger. You should not do this in ANGER though because, if you do, then YOU are doing EXACTLY what he does to your mom.

Why do my parents shout at me and not know it?

They are most likely very concerned about something, and listening will help you understand them. Tell your parents they hurt your feelings when they shout. When things settle down, tell your parents you feel hurt when they shout at you. They might not know this, and they might not even notice they’re shouting.

How to deal with a dad who belittles his wife?

No Dad should feel so defensive about his wife that he belittles her repeatedly. And no Mom should remain silent in such circumstances. There needs to be a paradigm shift and doing something differently like improving relationships by working with a therapist will go far in helping everyone involved.

How can I get my dad to stop being rude?

I strongly recommend being polite and respectful to your dad, while at the same time asserting that you will only accept respectful behavior from him in return. And recognize that it may take a little time for your dad to actually change his behavior.