Why is my younger brother the favorite child?

If the younger sibling feels like they’re the favorite child, their bond with their parents is strengthened and the entire family begins to perceive the youngest siblings as the favorite. So because they are perceived to be the favorite–they actually become the favorite by default.

How do you overcome parental favoritism?

Talk to your sibling. Try to counteract the negative effects of parental favoritism and possible sibling rivalry by cultivating a strong relationship with your sibling that is independent from your parents. You can do this by spending quality time together outside of family functions or making a date to go to lunch.

What do you do when your parents think your other siblings are better?

Rebuild your self-esteem. If your parents spend years acting as though your other sibling (s) are smarter, funnier, or more interesting than you, you might start to believe them. Learn to identify self-defeating or critical thoughts and feelings and challenge them wherever possible.

How do you feel when your parents don’t treat you fairly?

You may feel sad, ashamed, or angry if one or both of your parents aren’t treating you fairly. These feelings are normal, but that doesn’t make them permanent, and they don’t have to define your life. “Scapegoating” is when people act like something is your fault even though it isn’t.

How do I talk to my parents about my feelings?

This will help make sure that your parent isn’t distracted and can focus on listening to you. Try telling your parents how you feel. Your goal is to communicate your emotions assertively without being aggressive. Use “I” language instead of “you” language to emphasize your emotions.

How do you get your parents to change their behavior?

Remember that your parents have to make the decision to change. Sometimes talking about your feelings and/or making a plan is enough for them to change their behavior. Other times it isn’t. This typically isn’t your fault. The way they react to an honest conversation says how good they are at parenting, now how good you are at being their child.