Why would a guy hide you from his family?

He’s doing one of two things: He could be hiding his family and friends for some odd reason — perhaps because he’s embarrassed by them, because he’s pathologically private, or because he just has some complicated relationships that will make him uncomfortable and will take a while to explain.

Why would a man want to keep you a secret?

When you keep something secret, it usually means you are afraid of someone finding out, or are embarrassed or ashamed about it, or both. This can make YOU feel like you are unworthy of being his public girlfriend.

Are secret relationships bad?

Not only does a secret relationship often hurt others, particularly the people you care about, it can also end up hurting you on various levels. It can take a toll on your self-esteem, and you may start feeling inadequate, sad, or like a bad person because of the secret nature of your relationship.

Why does my boyfriend want to keep my relationship a secret?

Your partner could want to keep your relationship a secret because they are already in a relationship. Another possible reason is that instead of committing to just you, they could be seeing other people as well. Having your relationship out in the open could threaten to end other partnerships your lover has or is pursuing.

Should I tell my best friend I have a secret boyfriend?

Ask him if you could tell your best friend about the relationship, and see how he reacts. On the other hand, maybe it’s okay to not to push your secret boyfriend to immediately “define” your relationship. Some people feel they have to tell the world when they are dating someone.

Why do people want to keep their relationships private?

DAWSON: Some people like to keep a relationship private when they’re not sure where it’s going. Still, others want to keep a relationship secret because they are also involved with another person, or not completely over their previous relationship.

Should I be worried about my boyfriend’s secrecy?

Either way, his secrecy should give you concern. Someone who truly cares about you should be proud to tell other people about you. Anytime there is secrecy involved in a relationship there’s a cause for worry. Relationships should be about joy, happiness, and love…not secrecy.